My dear girl, no one will call you a mare, and you will not be less feminine, if you say no to anal sex, having tried at least once. There are several reasons to say so.

It is for people to try, or even just think about sex “through the back door” as they acquire the mass of all kinds of negative emotions. So let’s look at this subject objectively. One of the main problems – it is fear: fear of pain as women and men. In addition, the usual reactions of disgust and even a sudden change in feelings for partner, caused by the fact that many do not allow the opportunity to link sexual love with a part of our body, which is used for defecation.

There is also – more imaginary than real – “long arm” of the law, both civil and religious law. (In fact, this “long arm” almost never preclude action “short arms” until they both behave sensibly, and if we are not talking about juveniles.). In most countries, the only “legal” sexual intercourse recognized penis-vaginal sex in the “missionary” position.

Laws condemn many very common types of sexual practices, such as, for example, oral sex. But anal intercourse – the only form of “unnatural” sex, whose name has its origins more in the Bible: Sodom. The fact that this kind of sex is often associated with homosexuality and the animal makes it more like a crime than anything else, and relates it to the so-called category of “abnormal”.

Severe criticism in regard to anal sex, pornography and pornographic films deserves. As books and movies, leaving the erroneous impression that this form of sex for its lightness does not differ from normal intercourse. Whatever it was, the heroine always “accepts” it without hesitation, and her partner slips into her protruding buttocks as easily as he does so in the vagina, and orgasm, which brings the teeth, catches up with her after the first few movements. Viewers and readers who take it at face value, can rush into battle, throwing all caution, and are often so shocked that ever left such an idea.

It is known that the fear or expectation, or even the fear of something unknown, always forced to decrease sphincter muscle, which controls the rectum – anus (from Latin. Anus). This, in turn, prevents us from discouraging chance at moments of stress. It is also a serious obstacle for those experimenters who want to learn about sex “through the back door.”

But no matter what, many couples to his delight found that lovemaking should be no taboos. Anal sex enjoy those suited to each other as male and female porcupine – carefully.

HOW MUCH DO NOT ASK

Fear of anal intercourse begins long before starting the actual physical part. Many men for no reason, no reason at all deterred women how they raise this issue. The first barrier that must be overcome in this game – is understanding what not to talk to your partner replied “yes.” Of course it is the case when the question put to a man. If a woman invites herself a man, then everything is clear: go! Most men wait until the last minute when it comes to introducing the penis into the vagina during the normal sexual procedure, followed by: “How about we try in the ass this time?”

The first reaction of women – a strong fear: she thinks he is going to force her to do so immediately. Indeed, in the end, between the vagina and the posterior hole only about 5 centimeters, and all that he needs to do – is to aim a little lower.

Another bad start: “Have you ever tried this trick at home in the pope?” If a woman says “no”, she fears that it would give her some kind of virginal charm and make it even more insistent, and if she says yes, then give your partner the green light, regardless of whether she wants it at the moment or not. Maybe one day she tried anal sex and she hated him and, perhaps, it is tried repeatedly with another man and she liked it. But this did not mean that she wants to do this at the moment with this man – that is with you.

She may be several reasons and do not necessarily offensive to you. Maybe she likes anal sex with young men, but you are too great, and maybe she prefers to have long and thin penis through his “back door” and a short, stout – a “front” – and you, my friend, he’s too fat. Or maybe she’s just at this moment is not very calm for his digestive tract. (Do not forget that women with this much more problems than men because of their premenstrual extravagance.)

In any case, confronting them with the need to answer “yes” or “no”, you will achieve what it will be nervous and squeezed, and anal intercourse more than any another sexual act requires physical and psychological emancipation.

ACT pinky

When you do not know what to say – shut up. Perhaps, it is easy to learn about your interest in women, without uttering a word. Like any other erogenous zone, the anus (both inside and outside) with different women have different degrees of sensitivity. In anal sex, as well as in the genital, foreplay is vital, so do not spoil your chances of unnecessary haste. Start stroking her buttocks over the entire surface and watch her reaction.

Shifts whether it tightly their “cheeks”? If yes, then she nervously tense, but if its “cheeks” relax – this is a good sign. Then, starting from the base of the spine, do a finger down her anal hollow. Look, does it move backward, trying to pinch your finger between your buttocks? Rolls whether she clicked on her stomach, when you start to feel it linger rectum? If she does something out of this, it means that your chances increase.

A good way to persuade a woman to anal sex is the following: to prepare it the same way as if you were preparing her to parting with virginity in vaginal sex. Almost every woman before now have intercourse, experienced a “manual” work eager young boyfriend. So spend her anus through the same logical steps.

From a woman who has never had anything in his “rear”, must be treated as you treated the frontal virgin. And do not just stick a finger in linger rectum, knowing that there is no hymen. Imagine what it is. Moisten your index finger of her vaginal juices or your own saliva. Simply use this natural lubricant than suddenly start to fuss around with some bottles.

Quite simply, inexperienced in such matters, a woman may find deadly connection between your finger at her anus and a jar of Vaseline, you brought back with him to the bed, and, therefore, decide what you are going to rape her anally. For this first (opening) test of penetration best to use your little finger. Your index finger – a welcome guest in the vagina, even in a virgin, but virgin linger rectum – is something else. Remember, in your actions should be a maximum of continuity.

Instead of immediately penetrate inside, you will move your finger around the folds forming the rim of her anus. You’ll quickly find out whether it likes it or not, because it will compress your sphincter muscle, or to help you insert your finger inside, or to push him. In this regard, the sphincter muscle has a great potential. When the tip of your finger past the outer ring of muscle, do not start moving your finger back and forth as you would have to do so in the vagina – the pleasure that a woman receives from the anal love is not in motion, but in an inclusive sense of fullness of space filled with a finger or penis.

Slowly enter the little finger inward, until the joint, then start to make slow circular movements all the wrist, without moving a finger back and forth. These movements and the pressure will be given and in the vagina, as the rectum directly borders the female genital organs. While you’re doing this, make sure that, to do something else not anal – kiss her nipples, or pat the language of the navel – to distract her from thinking: what else you anal for her laid up. A woman who enjoys every step of the anal foreplay simply for the sake of this prelude is more natural to ripen before the rest.

NOT frighten …

Now she is fully “taste” your little finger and begins to move away contentedly on you – and protest. When a woman first goes through such a procedure, it usually cries and says: “Oh, Come on! Do not!” – Even if, without doubt, is enjoying every minute of it. Little girls from childhood were taught that they must be legible and elegant – sometimes too. She is afraid that during his thorough research and measurement, you stumble upon something, to put it mildly, unromantic.

Even despite the fact that she, of course, thoroughly washed the whole body in the shower and took a bath before going to bed, and knows that it is absolutely clear everywhere. Do not make her worry – give in to her immediately: Pull the finger, but keep the prelude to the external part. Also, kiss her ring – that is, ring her anus. Gently, but both should be – around, over and over again. In addition, in every kiss There’s something soothing, wherever he went, even if he (with smack) falls on his butt.

LASK TONGUE

Analingus – from Latin means “asshole – plus – the language. Some call it “riming” (reaming) – from the Old English “remen”, which means “lifts”. The word “rim” (looking around, twine) best expresses the essence of this technique, because the anus from the outside is a ring formed by the curled folds.

Women who have never tried it, call it “O-it-awful!” at least until such time as they try and under the able leadership will love it. The woman should lie on his stomach, legs wide apart and resting on the pillow under her stomach to lift himself up. Otherwise, a man can break your neck. This position, moreover, gives you a magnificent view of her charms, located below. Slightly dilute her buttocks with his hands. Do not stretch them much differently, aroused, you can hurt her. Before we concentrate on the anus, Realize unhurried lick up and down along her anal groove.

Pay special attention to the perineum: a tough, sinewy, the size of a dime region separating the anus from the vagina. This place is highly erogenous, especially in women who have suffered epizotomiyu – surgery, do during childbirth in order to expand the canal. Suture brings a certain amount of benefits, making this place the nerves more sensitive. Incidentally, women should have in mind (for another time), that the same part of the body men also improved erogenous.

When you caress the language of her anus, making the language fast circular motion, not forgetting the hot breath so that your pant excited her even more. Just do not “eat in” deep – the same as for other erogenous zones are fairly general: the smaller the better. Obviously, in this moment – is the time to properly lubricate it your own saliva, and at the same time, further excite her.

Yes, it is – a very animal, the cave species sex. But, after all, have we not descended from people who really came out of the caves? Traditionally, romantic approach – this is fine, but from time to time a man should play the role of a gentle beast for its women. And if she followed the instructions in this tutorial, it will be pleasantly surprised by the intensity of its excitation in response to its primitive passion. Such a change of place and action may initiate and light it, as never before.

Many believe this procedure useless, since language can not penetrate well inside. Of course, you do not get careless chattering tongue around her liking until the colon, but you can enter your tongue right in the ring of sphincter muscle. The excited woman will do it, trying to hold down the tongue for a few seconds – totally new and unknown ambivalent feeling.